AS much as I enjoy the fantasy realm and make believe,the fact IS,I must keep a firm grasp on reality now. I have a busy house,5 grown kids that visit often,a very active husband and 92 year olde DA,that ALL things revolve around his care in what we do and where we go.Its not eassy for mer at times.. I MAKE myself be here now at times,hell,I'd much rather be in the faerie realm at times. I keep myself centered,physically "rooted" here now on Earth. I also like to visit with others and be encouraging. this helps me to be here,now,too. I picture myself as a tree and ground. What do you do to be here NOW?