HORRIBLE TIMES OR GOOD TIMES

Imagine to find Yourself temporarily jammed in, stuck & tied to unpleasant situation, and you are temporarily unable to change it or to get away from it.
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It does happen to most people in different times of their lives and neither wealth, nor power can shield and spare them from these times of lessons.
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Cornered, feeling temporarily between a rock and a hard place, amidst a real absence of any good, dignified and viable choices…
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Perhaps, good, loyal and friendly company could soften a bit of the blows of times of that nature in our lives.
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Now, let’s add to that the most horrible part of it all on earth, the fact that besides all of the closed doors and roads in front of you, also, you have to share this difficult time together somehow, with another Human Being of an unpleasant nature.
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And this person although, not necessarily sinister, bad or wrong, she/he does not subscribe to your Values, nor to your Ways of Conduct, nor to your Belief and Language.
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Situations do change, good and bad times do come and go and so do people in our lives.
Nobody has control of anything for ever, control has temporary shelf-life, folks!
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Back to our situation at issue, we do know, it all will pass, it always does!
And that folks, it is 100% guaranteed, assured, confirmed by all and everything which came before and will/shall come after all of us.
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Therefore after considerations, I have come to this conclusion:
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In order to keep myself from any more Horrible Times with horrible people, right there into my life, I do prefer people and the company of people who do share my Values, who share my Ways of Conduct.
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I do prefer people and the company of people in my life, who do subscribe to my Belief and Language, to my Values and Ways of Conduct, and therefore “People who are in peaceful Harmony to / with Me, and to / with who I Am, to / with what I Like, love and enjoy… And to / with what I Do.”
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Now, I do not desire, nor want to work “very hard” in order to fit Myself in, or yet, to have Others to learn to fit in.
Either people fit in or they do not!
Either I fit in or do not!
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It is natural and simple, some people belong and others do not.
We all have people and places where we mutually belong, we naturally fit in and “all is well that ends well” as Shakespeare would have it.
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It is not about being unrealistic, difficult, fanciful, choosy or demanding.
It is just about logic and peace, the logic of peace and harmony.
We have to make it easy for ourselves individually and equally to others, folks!
But it surely helps if people are in harmony with us, with our lives, if/when they think and feel more like we do… And if/when they also have and share more of the same ways as those that we do.
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For instance for me and in my life:

If I were to consider a dear significant / meaningful Other Human Being to be with me and in my life at some point along the way ahead…

Being myself a Pagan, being myself a Wiccan, I would 100% “Not” consider at all anybody who is “Not” Pagan / Wiccan.

Being myself a GLBT-Oriented Human Being, I would “Not” consider anybody who is “Not” GLBT-Oriented as well.

Being myself a person who has experienced Past-Lives Regression / Reincarnation & Pagan Magick, I would "Not" want a person with me & in my life who is "Not" in natural peace and harmony to / with all of that.

Being myself a free-Thinker, an freelance Artist, a Musician, a Speaker, a Pagan Holistic Occultist who loves Pagan Norse Runes, Pagan Tarots, Divination and the Pagan Occult in general, I would 100% “Not” consider anybody who is not in peaceful harmony with all of that.

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I will choose Good Times with like-minded people who share the same tastes, the same interests & dispositions...
I will choose Good Times with like-minded people who share similar opinions / views to mine, people who are at peace & in harmony to / with me and to / with my expression of myself in the world.
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It can be quite annoying to be at cross-purposes with people in your life!
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Ergo, it is about minimizing the horrible waste of time and the painful rubbish which may result from non-intelligent, unwise and bad Decisions and Choices.
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We spare ourselves from the might-be unpleasant / bad times, and also equally, we spare Other People who could not / would not possibly be happy getting a real good load of us.
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In the end, it is mutually wise, good and benign to all parties and their individual best interests.
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I say, it is about Peace and Harmony, or rather Mutuality, mutual peace and harmony.
What I see in the world is too often, too much free-flowing mutual hostility, horrible lack of mutual peace and of mutual harmony between people, between people and their loved ones, etc.
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Not invited, not welcome, not needed nor tolerated in my life and chiefly after I get my peaceful spot under the sun.
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The journeys from cradle to grave here on Earth, they do not have to be horrible, bad and sad.
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But we must create / have our own Standards and firmly say “No”, to the “Who and What” which do not belong to / with us, in our lives.

Good luck!

Cheers,

Sky a.k.a. JD Aeon

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Comment by Enigma on July 28, 2019 at 4:32pm

"It was the best of times; it was the worse of times." -A Tale of Two Cities, Charles Dickens

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