We all make a lot of mistakes. It's part of the human experience. Well, yet again Mowitch probably has made a big one. I did go back. I could not take my daughter crying for me on the phone everyday. I guess that makes me a weak person. But I hope every one understands, I love her more than live it self. The one thing I would like to add is I have found a safe place to go in the event I need it. The only thing is that I would have needed my car. Which I now have. So if it gets as bad as it was I'm gone. I have done a lot of research. And received a lot of really good advice from my PS friends, as well as domestic violence advocates. If I have to leave again I will leave I will be much better equipped. I also want to add that I really appreciate what my oldest daughter did for me. But it was becoming obvious it was really getting on her nerves to have an extra person in her house. So that also contributed to my decision. I hope I don't loose any of my PS friends. If you feel you have to remove me from your list I will understand. Brightest Blessings, MowitchPhotoobox.com

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Comment by Tamara Christine Cox on June 24, 2011 at 10:37am
Oh honey, it doesn't sound like you've made a mistake at all. I know when my baby cries my heart shatters, so I understand exactly why you've gone back and like Dee I'm very glad you're back with her. Plus, you haven't gone back with blind idealism thinking oh he's changed and everything will be blissful, instead you've gone knowing you need to plan better this time in case the need arises again. Go girl! We're behind you.
Comment by Brandi on June 24, 2011 at 11:02am

I agree with everyone's statements above ...good for you in the fact that (if) there is a next time you will be more prepared..I am sure you have heard some of this before but make sure you have important papers too as well as some money stashed aside or placed in keeping with your safe place or get your own safety deposit box at a different bank from one you now use...place copies of keys, papers, like birth certificates, id's, money..important papers..also a copy of his id in case you need it..and a picture of him for identitifying him..

you could also make a small poppet of him and put some of his hair in it and bind him from hurting you or your daughter...then place it under his side of the bed or someplace where he won't find it..unless he makes the bed tho' under his side is usually safest.. 

I too was in an abusive situation..so I understand completely..and you are not being "weak"..you are protecting yourself and your daughter....just doing it with some better planning dear lady...

I will keep both of you in my prayers...

Comment by Terry on June 24, 2011 at 11:05am
You have done what needed to be done Mowitch. No one can fault you for that. I pray that things work out for you, but if you have to leave again, please take Hunter with you. You will remain in my thoughts and prayers as you make this tough but necessary journey, and remember, I will always be your friend. Love and Blessings.
Comment by Faeth Gale on June 24, 2011 at 11:19am

I'll always be here for you! You have enough to worry about, don't worry about us, lol! You're a beautiful person.  Take care of you and yours. Love you Sweetie!

Comment by Rowan Stormcrow on June 24, 2011 at 11:22am
My friend I only wish for peace and happiness for you and your daughter, you know what is best for you and her, your choices will never affect our friendship.
Comment by Tamara Christine Cox on June 24, 2011 at 11:26am
How beautiful Bernice, I'm stealing it. I totally agree with Rowan and Faeth
Comment by Sir Alfgar Blackshield on June 24, 2011 at 11:52am
It is always so hard with children involved...you have my full support whatever decisions you make....sometimes hard choices led to happy conclusions...so accept my best wishes for good to come of all this...and...it will....Sir Alfgar
Comment by Dragonfly on June 24, 2011 at 11:58am

No one else is in a position to judge you.  You said that he had filed for custody.  Have you checked on the status of that filing?  Just heed the advice given to you by Brandi and make sure you are prepared next time because there will be a next time.   I would also suggest that you go ahead and find an attorney to talk to so that, next time, you better know what your rights are.  My only other suggestion is that you should never again leave without your child.

Comment by GrayDragonLady on June 24, 2011 at 12:28pm

My sister, you will not loose my friendship. No one can fault you for your decision. I pray that things fall into place and work out for the best for you, should you at any point in time find that you must leave again, take your little precious one with you.  You are in prayers and will remain in my thoughts while you are in this tough journey. I will always be your friend. Love and Bright Blessings.

 

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Comment by Lady Nightshade (aka SusanK) on June 24, 2011 at 2:09pm
What would friends be if they didn't support you? Not worthy of your friendship that's for sure....I hope it will work out for all concerned and yes, definitely plan ahead for the next time. Blessings are with you~! Lady Nightshade/Susan K

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