Today I heard my soon to be ex-husband on the phone to my oldest daughter. He had went outside to call her in secrecy. And he was telling her I was so mean. I know I'm not a mean person. But then he said "she preaches all this law of three stuff, and then she's a mean person". as the day wore on he became sadder and sadder. Finally crying. He said I had hurt him because he still loves me and I'm not in love with him. Anyway, my question is, no matter if he is right or wrong. How can I as a wiccan cause so much pain, and still think I am doing the right thing? Any answers, my friends?